Saturday, October 18, 2014

The #1 mistake parents of teens make that keeps them up at night worrying about their teen.

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She looks like the little girl you raised, but now she's taller, sadder and more angry than you've ever seen her. The mood swings are unpredictable and her ability to make a sensible decision about friends, boys and school seem to have vanished. Does this sound familiar?
If so, you've probably shed a few tears, lost a couple hours of good night's sleep and maybe even considered therapy for her AND for you! Where did you go wrong?
There's good news and there's bad news.
The bad news is you may have made a huge mistake. The good news is you don't have to blame yourself because you were never taught how to avoid this mistake...and more good news, it's not too late to fix it!
The number one mistake you may have accidentally made while raising your little one into a teen is this: You did not properly cultivate her self esteem because you did not know how to (and you may not even have realized the value of doing so).
"You are beautiful and perfect and wonderful and amazing" are great ways to help our children to feel good, but that's not enough to cultivate true, lifelong self esteem. Some even say that feedback of this nature actually damages self esteem, but we'll save that for another discussion.
For now, focus on helping your teen to restore her self esteem because a healthy self esteem affects every decision your teen with ever make.
If you want your teen to have the ability to say no to negative influences, have respectable relationships with friends and boys, and establish clear goals for her future, then it's time to improve her self esteem now. The power is in your hands.
So how do you stop the worrying and enjoy a good night's sleep again? The answer is frightening simple. Cultivate your teens self esteem by focusing more on what she is doing right! That's it! In its simplicity lies its success. Focus on your teens "wins," accomplishments and successes. Compliment her effort and her perseverance rather than some natural brilliance that she may or may not even relate to having.
And what about your teen? Is it enough for a parent to establish this new method of self esteem building? This is a great start, but your teen will need to adopt this new method as well. Now is the perfect time for your teen to radically shift her habits of negative thinking, negative self talk, self doubt and pessimism. She will benefit most from actually learning very clear and detailed ways that she can evolve into a more positive, self-assured and confident individual.
Every dedicated and successful parent knows that their teen will need specific help and guidance to evolve into this level of healthy self esteem. That's where I can help.
I am a teacher and a coach. As easily as I have helped you to see that focusing on your teens "wins" rather than her errors or "natural" abilities is not the way to a healthy self esteem, I also easily help your teen to see themselves and their future in a more hopeful and happy way.
May I share my method with you? Please read on and you'll discover the valuable solution for your confused/unhappy teen and your sleepless nights. And don't worry, it doesn't have to cost you a dime!

The Solution for worried parents and growing teens

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Self Esteem Lessons is the solution. I have helped many teens and families to overcome a host of worrisome, sleepless nights to regain harmony in their lives and hope for their teens.
Individual sessions is one method I use, and my fast growing S.E.L.F.I.E Workshops is the one I want to share with you because help is here and you shouldn't be stumbling around in the dark anymore.

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Parents who understand the long term effects of high self esteem on the decisions their daughters will make, always go the extra mile to be sure that their teen attends this course.
There are even scholarship opportunities that can fully or partially assist with the $33 per hour tuition. If you've read this far, then you know she's worth it.Sign her up right now!
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